10 Things To Say To Your Bae After Having Sex & No, ‘Was I Good’ Is Not Among Them

‘It’s only words and words are all I have to take your heart away,’ goes the lyrics of one of the most romantic songs of all time ‘Words’ by the band Bee Gees. The song was released in the late 60s but still resonates with many young lovers’ sentiments. 

Well, clearly, words are a powerful medium to keep a relationship alive. Communication is the key to a healthy relationship, they say. But, more often than not, when it comes to having ‘the talk’ after a hot session in the bedroom with your partner, even the most chatty people become silent. 

If you are someone who doesn’t get what to say to your woman after having sex, this article is for you. 

Whether you are expecting a night of romp with a hook-up date or your long-time partner, here are 10 nice and naughty things to say to your bedroom bae after having sex to kick the silent awkwardness away. 

And it may just help you build better intimacy as well:

1. ‘Wow. That Was Awesome!’

Simple and to the point, this one is perfect for when you have experienced a toe-curling orgasm and your brain can’t function much. 

Kiss her on the lips, look her in the eyes and say it with utmost sincerity.  Remember, honesty is attractive and if you bluff, your body language will show it. 

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2. ‘Thank You. You Made Me Feel Truly Special’

People who are together for a long time start considering sex a given and stop appreciating it. 

But it’s time to show some appreciation, and thank your SO for making you feel special. Making you feel that you are the one. 

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3. ‘I Don’t Feel Like Washing You Off My Body Just Yet’ 

Just the way a man is conscious of what she would think or say about his size, a girl is also concerned about what you’ll think of her privates, the smell of her juices down there.  

So, along with planting kisses on her vagina, feed it with some compliments. Nothing would make her happier, trust us. 

And while you tell her that you love the way she smells, don’t forget to smell good yourself. 

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4. ‘I Loved The Way You…’

…Kiss.

Moan.

Smell.

Licked my ears.

Look at me as you blew me… 

Be specific. Women like attention to detail. This line would also let her know what exactly you enjoyed the most and what she must do more often.  

For all you know, it might even inspire the two of you for another hot sack session. Have a glass of wine as you take a break and prepare for round 2.  

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5. ‘What Should I Do To Prepare You For Round 2?’

Talking about another steamy session between the sheets, tell her that the sex was so good that you can’t wait for round 2.  

Her answer will also tell you what she enjoyed the most. Keep the stimulation going till you are done with your refractory period and go all in for the second round of happy endings. 

And don’t forget to enhance the experience with a good lube.

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6. ‘You Make Me Feel So Alive’

The best thing about sex is that it makes you feel young, active, accepted, cared-for and totally alive. 

So, what on earth could be a better compliment than to tell your bedroom bae that they make you feel alive.  

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7. ‘You Just Massaged Me To The Bones’

Men often take the pressure of being a giver and making the deed all about her pleasure, making her moan and experience the ultimate orgasm; But trust us, what makes her truly happy is to know that you are having a good time too. 

So, spell it out to her in the most cheeky way possible. Tell her that the experience was so erotic that you feel having been massaged to the bones. 

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8. ‘You Are My Happy Pill. My Love Drug’

This line is guaranteed to make both of you fall harder for each other. 

As you cuddle, hug her tightly and whisper in her ears that you feel most secure and happy when you are with her. 

Tell her that she is your love drug, your happy pill.

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9. ‘I Am Glad You Asked Me To Come Over’

If it is a hook-up date and you are in a rush to leave, don’t forget to drop a line and tell her how much you enjoyed the time spent with them. 

You don’t have to send an erotic text raving about their performance, a sweet message such as ‘I hope you had as good a time as I did,’ or ‘thank you for last night, I am glad we did this and you asked me to come over,’ is good enough. 

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10. ‘I Am At Work But I Wish I Was In Your Arms Right Now’

And if you have a mind to meet them again, do mention that. A message like, ‘I can’t stop thinking about you,’ or, ‘I am at work but I wish I was in your arms right now, I would love to meet you again soon. Xoxo,’ will convey your intention loud and clear. 

Say that and leave her blushing throughout the day. 

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The Bottomline 

Words can be a powerful aphrodisiac, the one that has the power to crank up your partner’s arousal, make them wet, and boost their confidence. 

The language of love in the form of cuddles and conversations can make your sex life more amazing and help you build a stronger intimacy with your partner. 

It is also worth noting that men, in general, tend to build an emotional connection through sex, but when it comes to women, they need to get emotionally connected to want sex. 

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